When you go to confront your partner about the cheating, he/she will start accusing you of cheating instead. He/she will bring up small incidents where he/she felt jealous and will begin to ask questions around them. Even if they know that you have not slept with them, they will say, But you wanted to!
Do cheaters get defensive when confronted?
A cheater, however, may get defensive because youve blown their cover, says Milrad. It is very common for cheaters to deflect responsibility and get irritated by your questions. They often try and shut you down and even criticize you for being too controlling or suspicious.
What are the signs of your spouse cheating?
Signs Your Spouse Could Be CheatingChanges in Communication.Appearance and Hobbies.Attitude Changes.Lying and Avoidance.Indifference.Changes in Your Sex Life.Money Issues.A Change in Technology Use. •7 Apr 2021
How do you feel when someone lies to you?
You catch someone in a lie… and it hurts. You feel a cauldron of emotions beginning to bubble up within you. Anger, shock, resentment, disappointment, sadness. Youve been disrespected, humiliated… you might even go so far as to say you feel violated.