Question: Do you message Tinder matches right away?

Either person can message first on Tinder, but some women wait for the man to reach out first. If youre swiping and match, its okay to send your first message right then. Its also okay to wait a few hours or days if youre genuinely tied up.

Do Tinder matches show up immediately?

For you, its an instant match. For the other person it could have been DAYS since they swiped right. Tinder will apparently add in some non-matches while you swipe, so you dont get a very obvious string of instant matches within the first minute.

Should I message Tinder match every day?

Its a fine balance: Get a sense of someone via messages before meeting, but dont rely on your text dynamic for too long. Chat with your Tinder match as long as it takes you to feel out what their dating expectations might be, what their interests are, what their conversation style might be like.

What should I text a Tinder match?

You can try a light-hearted question, a funny pick-up line, a flirty compliment, or a simple hello. The key is choosing an Tinder first message that matches your personality and also reflects the tone of the persons profile who you matched with.

How long should you chat online before meeting?

“Four to five days of chatting before you initiate the date is often the sweet spot. It gives you enough time to build that foundation of trust, but its not so long that the momentum drops off.”

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